POMPOIR…the fine art of “milking” his lingam with your yoni…Divine!

Ah, Pompoir…the fine art of “milking”  his lingam with your yoni! (Lingham and yoni = Sanskrit for penis and vagina.) While both partners are still, the woman grips and massages her man’s erection with rhythmic, rippling contractions of the pubococcygeus muscle (PC) and other pelvic floor muscles. (This rippling effect occurs during an intense orgasm in a…

Performance Anxiety?…Let Tantra Help

Performance anxiety results in avoidance of sexual encounters, lowered self-esteem, relationship discord and sexual dysfunction. Typically, an awareness of performance anxiety produces preoccupation with the anxiety itself, so the person becomes less fully involved in any sexual interaction, bringing on the feared failure. Commonly, the anxious partner worries about being sexually responsive and spontaneous; he…