G-spot stimulation is one way to access Tantric orgasms. The G-spot (Grafenberg spot) is a small, lima bean-shaped area on the upper side of the vaginal wall (belly side), approximately 2-3 inches in. Different in texture than the rest of the yoni (vagina), this spot tends to spongier and coarser in texture. When the G-spot is stimulated through hard pushing or constant rubbing, it yields intense orgasmic feelings which exceed a normal female orgasmic response.
To properly stimulate the G-spot, pressure must applied directly on the upper wall of the yoni. Moreover, the woman needs to be highly aroused. Blood rushes to the G-spot like it does to the clitoris during sexual excitement. Thus, any sexual position maximizing pressure to this area increases the likelihood for a G-spot orgasm.
These following positions will increase the probability that a woman will experience a G-spot orgasm.
1. Rear Entry. When done correctly, rear entry maximizes potential for a G-spot orgasm as his penis should rub on the upper wall of the woman’s yoni. To do this position correctly, the woman should kneel on all fours, legs parted slightly. She should resist any urge to put her face down onto the bed, and instead try to keep her back arched slightly, with her elbows bent or up and locked. The entry angle changes dramatically when the woman leans forward into the bed. As he enters her from behind, the sensation should be one of tight and full penetration. The woman may feel his lingam hitting her cervix as this is often an excellent position to get full penetration. The man can change his penetration to hit the G-spot by pulling up on her hips and thrusting in a more downward motion.
2. The Fusion. This position is a Kama Sutra favourite. To get into this position, he should sit on the bed or floor and extend his legs in front of him, his arms behind him. The woman should then lower herself down onto his lingam. Her legs should be up by his chest and bent, and her arms should be behind her and between his legs. She then uses a combination of her arms and legs to rock herself on his penis using am in-and-out motion, like a piston. This position may seem unlikely to produce a G-spot orgasm, but its angle and seductive nature make it highly erotic. However, if you have bad knees, you will not be able to sustain the fusion position for long.
3. The Lotus Press. This position is excellent for the G-spot orgasm, multiple orgasms, heavier male or female partners, and newly pregnant women. She lies on her back and lets the man penetrate her, as in missionary position, but after penetration has taken place, she raises her legs up and back, until they are either on his shoulders or chest. The man kneels up against her and uses her thighs for support, and she can grab onto his hips to help bring him into her. This position allows for extreme penetration and his pelvic arch is against her clitoral area. It also provides an arousing rubbing against the top of the yoni wall due to the man’s height compared to hers, which is what stimulates the G-spot.
4. Rotated Goddess.This position is adored by both men and women alike because it offers excellent stimulation. The man lies flat on the bed and she lowers herself onto his lingam facing BACKWARD toward his feet. Slowly and carefully, she leans forward, until she is lying on top of him, her legs outstretched and her hands down by his feet. Then, she can slowly do a figure 8 motion with her hips or just grab his ankles and slide herself up and down. Because she is lying down at this angle, her yoni is pulled taut, causing the penis to rub it tightly, hence the G-spot pressure. She also gets gentle clitoral rubbing by his testicles and legs, a pleasant and gentle bonus. The Goddess is in total control here and she sets the pace and depth of motion.
Tantric sex is designed to enhance physical sensations and transform them into a vehicle for blissful insight. Women feel the orgasm from G-spot or yoni stimulation deeper inside their body, rather than as the localized feelings they have with clitoral stimulation. Whole body orgasm is but one Tantric method for accessing a divine state of ecstasy.
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