Dark Tantra for Couples…The Play-at-Home Version

Clearly, you have heard about the now infamous novel Fifty Shades of Grey. Perhaps you wonder if BDSM requires a large financial outlay. Yes, leather corsets and horse whips are well worth their price tag but if you’re just getting into it, try BDSM on for size first. The Dark Tantra version is milder and more appropriate for beginners.

Besides, it costs a lot less!
First of all, you and your partner must mutually decide that you are up to trying some BDSM.

Does the notion of being tied up get both of you in a hot, raunchy mood?

Can you almost feel that teasing flogger along your thighs leaving you breathless?

Yikes, what’s that?  You don’t have any sexy leather apparel or kinky toys!

Fear not, these inexpensive, practical ideas will convert any object into a potential pleasure tool!
Time to Play The Sensation Game! Rev up your engines by playing with your lover’s keen bodily sensations.   Make them beg for more! You can use various flavors and scents to create different reactions, but the skin is our largest body organ, so take advantage of it. Increasing its overall sensitivity prepares you to feel the erotic experience at the highest level.

Now, venture forth and check inside your home closets for the following common items.

Feathers…Ticklish? Get a massive smile out of your man with that feather duster! It will make both of you feel comfortable and relaxed.

Rope/Laces…Keep your old running shoe laces as they may come in handy. Would you like a collar for that cute little pussy cat? Visit your local sex shop or dollar store to find useful but inexpensive items. Avoid buying plastic or rough material as it causes friction burns.

Scarf…Use a silk scarf to slowly caress our lover’s entire body…nose to toes.   The created sensations depend upon the thickness of the receiver’s skin and the amount of nerve endings you are touching. Go from her toes, to her knees to her yoni and up to her breasts.  She will shiver with absolute delight!

Studded belt…Give your old leather studded belt a second chance at life. Vary the pressure you apply but do be careful as the spikes can damage your lover’s skin.

Get Tied up..How many times has your female lover been tied up or handcuffed before having one delicious orgasm after another? Bondage has always been popular in the BDSM world and definitely worth adding to your boudoir repertoire.

Tie… Take it off his shirt in the midst of an enticing kiss, swing it around your finger, slide your hands through it and give him your sassiest, sauciest look. By then, he will have got the hint, loud and clear! Prepare yourself for blast off…

Tights…Slide off her tights with a dirty look and even dirtier purpose. Trace wet kisses up and down her willing legs before tying her hands up.

Turn off the Lights….Are you afraid of dark? The best cure is to close your eyes and let your senses take over total control of your body.

Fabric…If you wear pricey clothes that you do not wish to render in the heat of passion, rip up an old sports t-shirt to use as an on-the-go blindfold.

Sleep mask…Put that sleeping mask you got on your last international flight to good use. After enjoying the playful pleasure awaiting you, your body will be so relaxed you will no longer need it

Hands…Challenge your lover’s self-control and reward them accordingly. If he moves, Mistress will show him no mercy…None!

Enjoy Smacking that Nasty Ass…Oooh! The raw sound of the hit, the touch of your lover’s hand against your hot naked skin and those unrehearsed moans of pleasure bursting out your lips are amazing!

Hair brushBe greedy and enjoy both sides of your hair brush.  Those firm bristles can caress your lover’s skin while the flat part delivers a well deserved blow to his naughty, upturned ass.

SlippersAs a misbehaving child, were you ever threatened with a slipper spanking? Who would have guessed that you could enjoy giving and receiving this so much as an adult?

Belt…Once you feel comfortable with your spanking technique, use a plain belt to deliver a harder, more controlled hit.  Soon, your beloved’s butt cheeks will wiggle in sheer surprise and total delight.


I am Dakini Devi Bliss, a Certified Tantric Practitioner, Facilitator and  Blissful Bodyworker. A gifted, lifelong spiritual seeker, I have been  formally trained in energetic aura manipulation, Kundalini awakening, Tantric healing, healing bodywork therapy and Reiki. In my multiple-disciplined approach,  I manipulate sexual energy for the highest good. With a background in tantra, kundalini yoga, meditation, qi gong, energy work, sexual psychology and relationship coaching, I employ a uniquely rich healing blend for each client. My tantra training initiation was a lengthy process extending over several years, including studies in India, to gain the experience needed to teach others.  My spiritually-based professional practice is ideal for those wish to open up to a higher, enlightened state. My work is geared for those interested in using tantra to create kundalini awakening and a deeper connection to their partner(s). I possess a nurturing, joyful nature with a peaceful warrior mindset.